Friday, December 18, 2015

Friday/Saturday Rambles

Hello everyone and welcome back.  I know this post is going up late but I have been so busy today that time has seemed to flown by.  

There has been alot going on in my house as I am sure has been with yours as well given it is almost Christmas.  Personally I think Christmas is over commercialized but what are we to do?  Yeap that's right keep on commercializing it.  We do what we can with what we can and try to remember that we are all in this big ole' crazy ass world chugging along together.

So I have been doing alot of thinking lately and trying to figure out alot of personal things.  However, I keep coming up either blank or getting distracted by everything else.  Like right now for example, my mind is going a million directions but at the same time trying to figure how to best write this post.

I was recently introduced to a site that is the most disturbing thing ever to me.  Yes I went on it and I commented and I shouldn't have.  Why do you ask?  Well because you just can't reason with ignorant people that is why.  It never ceases to amaze me at how some people who are mothers, brothers, fathers, sisters, professionals and everything else can be so mean and terrible and resort to bashing people every chance they get.  These are people who want to pretend they are innocent or not as bad as the people they are talking about.  

Seriously, were these people raised to be this way or have they been torn down so bad that they think this is acceptable behavior?  Don't get me wrong, I am sure we have all made comments about people, said things when we were angry and regretted them after it was said, I certainly am guilty of this.  But these people seem to thrive on this type of behavior and then want to try and tear you down for pointing out the obvious to them.  

Do people really hate themselves so much that they have to talk about other people in such a derogatory way?  I guess you are probably thinking, "well aren't you doing the same thing?"  I suppose you could say that but I am not self hating, I am not self loathing, I am not self anything but curious.  

My mom always taught me to treat others the way that I wanted to be treated but by no means be a door mat for anyone.  I honestly try to treat everyone with respect, I am not saying that I always succeed but I do try.  Am I perfect or think I am?  Absolutely NOT!!!!  I am after all human, flawed, learning and trying to be a good person.  

I was searching for the perfect picture for this post and I 
came across this and I thought hmmm, this fits.  Seriously think about what this is saying.  If you are the subject of such mean, brutal, negative comments than maybe you are not the problem.  Trust me when I say, I don't take the mean, negative, hurtful, brutal comments personally.  

As a matter of fact my motto is this:  1)you don't pay my bills, 2) you don't sign my paycheck and 3) you don't sleep in my bed, therefore your opinion of me don't really matter.  I know that may sound harsh but it is true.  I know who I am, what I am, what I am about, who I am wanting to be and I try to set an example for my kids and grandkids.

My family isn't perfect nor do I try and make it out to be.  Hell no one's family is.  I am sure as I am breathing that if some of these peoples family knew what they were doing they would be totally and completely disappointed in them.  I hope that one day they never have to endure the things that they are dishing out.

I believe in lifting people up rather I like them or not.  I believe that we are all just trying to find our way in the world and sometimes we get lost.  Getting on the right path and finding your way again is all part of the journey.

So if you are one of these mean people on here and you are wanting to comment and leave a nasty remark, just remember this is MY SITE and I WILL DELETE your negative self.  I don't need you to try and bring me to your level because honey trust me when I say, YOU WILL NEVER BRING ME DOWN!!!!!

Ok so with that being said, I hope that you have a wonderful rest of the evening, an amazing Saturday and a Blessed Sunday.

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